mind your business: Why Feedback is Your Key to Winning
There are five simple words that can spell doom for a leader: "If I had only known!" These are the words you utter right after a major client cancels a contract, a customer stops ordering or an error occurs that will cost you thousands out of your own pocket. That's why the best leaders and the most competent managers thrive on employee feedback.
So, why don't more of us go out of our way to encourage quick and candid feedback? Our first response to this question is typically focused on our team. We aren't convinced that they really get the big picture, we don't want them to get distracted from their current work, or we simply don't value their opinion. The best trusted advisors will tell you that it's not the leader's associates, but rather, the leader's perspective that is the problem.
If leaders aren't careful, they can begin to believe that they alone know what's best. No one else could possibly have all the necessary information for a decision like they do, and no one has the company's or the customer's best interest at heart like they do. This is the kind of thinking that leads to mediocrity at best, and outright failure at worst.
Think about the examples where feedback wasn't encouraged and the results were troublesome: the Toyota accelerator problem or the rollout of the national health care website, for instance. In each situation someone possessed important information, but was not encouraged to share it.
Among the most successful working professionals there is one constant truth: Trust between leaders and their associates is built upon a transparency that reflects a freedom to speak and to be heard. A corporate culture of harm, where listening to employees isn't valued, impacts business every day across America.
However, it takes more than listening to get the kind of feedback an effective leader needs. Many workplace surveys will tell you that employees don't believe their leader is genuinely listening most of the time.
One typical employee survey may ask the question, "If your supervisor could improve in one area that would make a difference in your work performance, what should it be?" Among numerous answers, a common one stood out: "Value my opinion enough to look at me and listen whenever I am trying to tell you something. I could save you from a lot of trouble." When the person who leads us doesn't listen to us, we can sense it—and we don't like it.
How we do we turn that attitude around? How do you create an environment where you are getting consistent and candid feedback? There are three leadership skills that are essential. Without them, you will always be working with half truths and misinformation. With them, you will become proactive, anticipating challenges and opportunities before everyone else, and your reputation as a leader who develops followers will soar.
1. Stop, drop and listen.
When an associate is talking with you, don't be multitasking. Stop whatever you are doing and listen. A director in a major urban hospital was accused of frequently checking his email and text messages while meeting with his team. He agreed for one week to keep the phone in his pocket or on the desk and look right at his associate and just listen.
The results within a week were staggering. Countless team members commented on how much they appreciated his new behavior. But, more importantly, one associate who is usually reticent to share much told him of an impending problem that would have been catastrophic for the hospital. Merely giving his undivided attention proved invaluable to his business.
2. Suspend judgment.
Many young managers believe that if they don't act like they have the answer, their employees will lose respect for them. This thought-process is backward: Pretending to have all the answers is the chief cause of not being respected.
If you are prone to snap judgments and haven't disciplined your mind to routinely suspend judgment, then you will assess, judge and determine your response without getting all the feedback. You might be right 75 percent of the time, but the 25 percent of the time that you jumped to a conclusion could cost you your career. When you are getting feedback from a team member, learn to hold back on your first response and make no judgment until you have finished your conversation with this associate.
3. Search deeper.
Rarely will an employee reveal everything to you about something right off the bat. As a leader, it is your job to bring out what the other person is thinking. Ask questions to search deeper for what the person is trying to convey: How do you mean that? Can you give me an example? Why is this important? How will this affect us? Which do you think will get you more feedback—a statement you make that ends in a period, or one that ends in a question mark?
That's what the CEO and president of General Motors, John F. Smith, did. He undertook the most significant reorganization in the company's history. He succeeded in engendering this practice of listening among the management team and the results were that GM went from near bankruptcy to a profit. "Good things happen when you pay attention," Smith concluded.
Chances are good that right now your associates have information you need to hear. Practice these three skills constantly and the trust and feedback you gain could make the difference in your career.
By Barry Banther
Barry Banther is the founder and CEO of Banther Consulting. With decades of experience as a business leader and corporate executive, he has become a trusted advisor, leadership speaker and trainer for Fortune 100 companies like Pfizer and Rockwell, as well as mid-size to large family-owned businesses across America. Barry's new book, "A Leader's Gift: How to Earn the Right to be Followed," will be released in April 2014. For more information, visit www.barrybanther.com.